I’m sure you’ve had a date with a girl that didn’t go the way you expected. It happens to
everyone. Just realize that it’s not a matter of some invisible cloud following you around. How women respond to you depends on your personality and Manliness. There are common errors men tend to make when going out with a woman. Small details count a lot in the big picture. A little bit of inconsistency within your Manly frame, and you lose her. This is what I’ll be talking about in this article.
The biggest mistake you can make is to treat a woman as if she is different by putting her on a pedestal or looking down on her and treating her bad. Most guys, on seeing an attractive woman, are like, “OMG, she is soooo hot and beautiful. I don’t really deserve such girl …” Why? Why don’t you deserve her? Because she is hot? Is she above you in any way? No. Is she more than you? No. She is a human being, just like you and me. Women expect you to be a bit above them. They like it when they can look up to a man and not only because you are taller. Have qualities that she can admire in you, the most important of which are your personality and ability to lead her in the right direction.
Flowers and presents – They are wonderful tools for keeping a relationship and showing a woman how important she is to you – but not for seducing her. It’s a common misconception that you will lay her by buying her flowers or gifts. A Man would reward her with that. But why should she be rewarded when you don’t even know her? When you go out with a girl, she is usually a complete stranger to you. Do you buy flowers for strangers? No. Do you send gifts to strangers? No. It’s OK to do so when you’re in love with her, and she’s in love with you. But please, forget those tools for the first few weeks at least. Most guys who try to date her will bring flowers or chocolate bonbons. She just laughs at such lame attempts. Separate yourself from the crowd. Be different. A Man doesn’t need to stand in
line. He knows what he wants, and he knows how to get it.
Complimenting – It’s easy to go the wrong way with compliments. A compliment here and there is fine, but avoid overdoing them. They get boring quickly. How you compliment her matters a lot: “Oh, you look soooo beautiful!” – This is lame. You are putting her on a pedestal. You praise her looks – she has heard this a thousand times already. Her looks are genetics. She can’t influence that. Another bad one: “Nice ass!” – Macho-style compliment. This is again a stupid way to do it. Compliment your buddy’s girl to your buddy like that, but not the girl you’re seeing. If she’s hot, she likes to be complimented because of her personality, style or general outlook. No one does that. She’ll be flattered by your noticing it.
Tell her she has a beautiful smile and that you like it when she smiles. Tell her she has nice earrings and that you like her taste. Tell her that you like her perfume and that it’s one of your favorites. (more…)
October 23rd, 2009
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