Forget Pick-Up Lines – Learn How To Approach Women

CassieApart from clubs, there are many other places to meet girls. These include shopping malls, university campuses, the street and other venues I have already mentioned. The difference is that at most of these places, women don’t expect to be approached, and they are in a different mood. Usually, just by going up to them, you will create a large amount of attraction. But always be careful not to come off as threatening. Yelling “Stop!” at a girl on the street with a serious expression on your face might not be the best way to approach her. I wouldn’t recommend touching her either: Imagine being a woman, and some stranger on the street suddenly puts his hands on your shoulders.

Just choose the girl you want to approach: on the street, in a shopping mall or anywhere else. Try to make eye contact with her. Whether she looks back at you or not, smile, then go straight up to her. Don’t approach her from behind or from the side. Your goal is not to scare her to death, but to talk to her. When you’re in front of her, raise your hand gently and say, “Stop,” while still smiling and looking in her eyes. If she is located elsewhere, like sitting on a bench, sit next to her. Your state should be the same as when approaching a girl in a club. Be happy about meeting her and show it. You can use one of the “I like you” lines: “Hi! I like you. You have a beautiful smile.”

After she recovers from her surprise and you talk a bit, you can offer to take her to a nearby café if she’s not in a hurry. Shopping malls are ideal for this, because there are usually several restaurants and cafés inside. If she has to leave, just say: “I see you’re in a hurry, but I want to meet you later and get to know you better. Let’s exchange numbers, and we can meet in a café to talk later.” Then take her number.

If both of you have some spare time, it’s not a bad idea to stay together and switch venues. For example, if you meet at the shopping mall, sit and talk in a café for an hour or two; then you can take her for a walk at the nearby park and kiss her. The more time you spend with her and the more places you visit together, the closer she will feel to you, as if she’s known you for some time. Try it. And, by the way, you can do the same thing when picking her up in a club: Just extract her from the club; then visit a restaurant or another place as if you were already a couple.

Another way to meet girls is in your own social circle, that is, your friends and the people they introduce you to. Visiting a house party organized by your buddies, or going out together is the easiest way to pick up a girl in your circle of friends. Just make sure when you are new in a group that you don’t fight for attention or try to be the center by being loud. Lay back and watch the dynamics going on in the conversation. There is no need to use any specific opener; just approach the girl you want when the time is right, and talk to her.

A word of warning: If it’s more of a closed circle, think twice before trying to pick up a girl.
Don’t shit where you eat; see if it’s worth it. Consider that you will probably lose your
chances with other girls in the same group. And, if she’s the only girl that eight guys are
trying to pick up, you will have to choose a different technique. Just lay back and ignore
her. Your ignoring her will start to bother her after some time, and she’ll probably initiate a
conversation with you. Note that this only works if she has already acknowledged your
presence.

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