Junk and Sugar

>A common complaint I hear from men when it comes to online dating and women is;

The amount of unattractive or damaged women that want too much in a man!

They tell me how a single mother of three shouldn’t be so picky or how she should lose some weight before making demands like that.

My first thought on the situation is who cares what a woman says she wants if you aren’t attracted to her.

Yet, what I find myself asking men who say this is what causes you to even be willing to settle for a woman like this if she wasn’t asking for what she is asking for.

Most online dating sites have a search function that allows you to eliminate women with children, heavyset women, and any number of things that you do not want.

It is also important to remember that just because she says it in her profile doesn’t mean that is the reality that she lives in.

When you are doing a search online it is important that you already know what you are willing to accept and not accept in a woman.

The only two that she can usually reveal online are her weight and her children; everything else is her just talking.

If she fits into what you are willing to accept find the connection that you two have and send her an email letting her know just that.

However, if you discover that she does not fit into what you are willing to accept move on to the next profile and forget about her, because she need not exist in your mind.

In the end, all a woman’s profile can reveal is who she would like to meet, if you already know that you would not like to meet her then who cares who she wants to meet.

More importantly, remember that if you would like o meet her it is then up to you to create a reason for her to want to meet you. Read the rest of this entry »

>When it comes to finding a woman to date, men normally choose 1 0f 3 different ways to go about finding her; online, bars/clubs, or chance.

Of course each way has both its good and bad points however, in this article the focus is mainly going to be on the bad points of each way.

1.) Online Dating

This is quickly becoming the most convenient way to meet new women.

Yet, it is important to understand that online anyone can be whoever they want so you don’t ever really know who you are dealing with.

Your best bet is to quickly set up a meeting offline so you have a better idea of who you are dealing with even though women generally reveal a lot in their profiles if you know what you are looking for.

2.) Bars/Clubs

Usually known as meat markets this is where you get to interact with women who usually are single and simply looking for a good time. Read the rest of this entry »