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Apart from clubs, there are many other places to meet girls. These include shopping malls, university campuses, the street and other venues I have already mentioned. The difference is that at most of these places, women don’t expect to be approached, and they are in a different mood. Usually, just by going up to them, you will create a large amount of attraction. But always be careful not to come off as threatening. Yelling “Stop!” at a girl on the street with a serious expression on your face might not be the best way to approach her. I wouldn’t recommend touching her either: Imagine being a woman, and some stranger on the street suddenly puts his hands on your shoulders.

Just choose the girl you want to approach: on the street, in a shopping mall or anywhere else. Try to make eye contact with her. Whether she looks back at you or not, smile, then go straight up to her. Don’t approach her from behind or from the side. Your goal is not to scare her to death, but to talk to her. When you’re in front of her, raise your hand gently and say, “Stop,” while still smiling and looking in her eyes. If she is located elsewhere, like sitting on a bench, sit next to her. Your state should be the same as when approaching a girl in a club. Be happy about meeting her and show it. You can use one of the “I like you” lines: “Hi! I like you. You have a beautiful smile.”

After she recovers from her surprise and you talk a bit, you can offer to take her to a nearby café if she’s not in a hurry. Shopping malls are ideal for this, because there are usually several restaurants and cafés inside. If she has to leave, just say: “I see you’re in a hurry, but I want to meet you later and get to know you better. Let’s exchange numbers, and we can meet in a café to talk later.” Then take her number.

If both of you have some spare time, it’s not a bad idea to stay together and switch venues. For example, if you meet at the shopping mall, sit and talk in a café for an hour or two; then you can take her for a walk at the nearby park and kiss her. The more time you spend with her and the more places you visit together, the closer she will feel to you, as if she’s known you for some time. Try it. And, by the way, you can do the same thing when picking her up in a club: Just extract her from the club; then visit a restaurant or another place as if you were already a couple.

Another way to meet girls is in your own social circle, that is, your friends and the people they introduce you to. Visiting a house party organized by your buddies, or going out together is the easiest way to pick up a girl in your circle of friends. Just make sure when you are new in a group that you don’t fight for attention or try to be the center by being loud. Lay back and watch the dynamics going on in the conversation. There is no need to use any specific opener; just approach the girl you want when the time is right, and talk to her. Read the rest of this entry »

This is a term you will usually hear about in dating world but it applies to all areas of life. Alpha males are extremely attractive to women. In society the alpha male is the person that the others follow. The Alpha male understands better than other men about what women want. Alpha male knows the art of commanding a woman’s attention. Becoming an alpha male is one of the secrets to succeeding with women. You should want to learn how to become an alpha male…

What Women Want

Being an alpha male is mandatory if your aim is to attract the most amount of beautiful women possible, then you choose which women you want to date. To become an alpha male means learning the art of seduction, using the correct body language, knowing the best pick-up lines and always acting confident and relaxed around women. Women keep falling for and chasing after alpha males. First and Foremost, you must believe in yourself. Your success with women comes from having a solid frame of mind and self-confidence. Women want to be seduced by men; they would rather have a little piece of an Alpha Male than the whole part of a homely guy.

How to Be a Alpha Male – 5 Rules to Follow

Rule #1 - You need to lose your old beta male characteristics.

Rule #2 -You aren’t concerned with others opinions of you or what you do.

Rule #3 - You control every situation.

Rule #4 – You need to be an energetic guy, but not overly excited.

Rule #5 - Control your voice and tone.

How to become an alpha male is a very common question by someone who is trying to attract a beautiful woman. The more you believe you are the alpha male, the more you become the alpha male. You must let yourself become a successful alpha male. It will take a little practice before you become comfortable doing this, but as you do so you’ll pick up speed and it will become second nature. If you do this, women become extremely submissive towards the alpha male, but conversely they are extremely rude and quite insulting to beta males because to them these males don’t deserve their respect or their submissiveness.

How to Be a Alpha Male - Body Language

The most important thing to remember is that you will learn how to display the alpha male body language everywhere you go and in all situations. When you become an alpha male, you display confidence in all situations and do so by developing strong body language. What body language do alpha males use to get any woman they want? They have great posture; they are relaxed and confident portraying an image as to show his territory. They act as if they “own” them area that they are currently occupying. Certain body language traits can make you appear to have inferior status, a definite turn-off to women. This is another beta trait. Believe me what I say that she will love you more if you show pride and confidence in both your body language and with what you say. Read the rest of this entry »

Ask almost any Body Language expert what leaning back communicates to a woman that you are talking to and almost all tell you it communicates a certain amount of disinterest and lack of concern in the conversation involved.

They also will tell you that when trying to make a good first impression you should avoid leaning back for those exact same reasons.

However, when it comes to attracting women, leaning back is perhaps one of the most powerful things you can do.

If a woman likes you and is interested in what you have to say, your leaning back will cause her to lean in more to hear what you have to say.

If a woman is neutral in regards to her interest in you she still must act as if she likes you and lean in to determine if she might like you.

As for women who don’t like you, it will be easier to know which ones they are when they aren’t leaning in and are more than likely leaning back as well.

In other words, when you lean back most women, whether they realize it or not, will reveal the amount of interest they really have in you.

The more they lean in as you lean back the greater amount of interest they have in you which you can then decide to turn into attraction or not.

If she too is leaning back you can lean in to see if she follows; if she does then her interest is great, if she doesn’t then odds are she isn’t interested in you. Read the rest of this entry »

I am no dating expert or guru, I am just an average every day guy living a regular existence who has been able to transform his dating life and have a lot of success meeting women. Over the past couple of years I have seen Myspace transform my own and many other people’s social lives. Now Facebook has produced an exceptionally great opportunity for any average guy to meet amazing women that they would have never had the chance to meet previously.

First I am going to tell you why Facebook presents this exceptional opportunity for you and then I am going to tell you the how. It is important you do not skip this section because in this case understanding the why maybe be just as if not more important than the how. Given that over 60% of Facebook users are women let me try and determine why this is the case and why it is critical for your to understand.

Why do women love social networking sites? Back in the old days when we used to live in tribes of around 100 people men used to be depended on for the survival of their family. Women and their children depended on their man to provide for and protect for them, without a man a woman and her family would usually die. There were no social services in those days. Men developed a strongly independence as they had to depend on themselves for their own survival and the survival of their offspring.

Men who were abundance in the wealth they could provide for their family were seen as attractive as there men who can great strength and fitness who could protect their family. Men who had leadership and dominance were seen as attractive as they had the power to lead others and provide and protect their families thus men who also possessed these skills also found it easy to attract a female partner.

Women on the other hand had another set of qualities which they developed in order to increase the likelihood of their survival and that of their family. This can be best described as having great communication skills. Women depended on keeping a great relationship with their man for their own survival as losing them would mean certain death. They also had to master the art of communication with their children and families. Over thousands of years this characteristics have been hard wired into our brains so that men and women will excel at certain skills. Read the rest of this entry »

Guys, do you want to learn how to meet girls? Are you tired of not having any success with the women? Had enough with sitting at home on a Friday night without a woman to take out on a date? Ever thought that if only you knew the right method, that your life as a dateless chump would be way better than it is? It is time you became the Alpha Male that you have always dreamt about. The kind of guy that can stride into a bar and make chicks ask “is he available?”

I want to show you the greatest secret that will change the way you pick up girls. The secret itself is so simple but you have to master it. The secret is a skill to work on for the rest of your life, and if you master it, it will change every area of your life. Ready to be a better man?

I’ve been where you are before and I wont let you do it anymore. I won’t let you sit at home on a Friday night, dateless, hoping that a woman would call and ask you for a date. You need to drop all the stuff you’ve been wasting time on and take a step forward to become a better man. You need to become the Alpha Male, the man that women want to be with. You can have the women hanging all over you. Drop the video game controller and make a better life for yourself.

Let me tell you the one secret. Girls want a very strong guy. They need a man who likes himself. It really doesn’t matter if you are overweight, losing your hair…none of that matters to a girl. How rich you are doesn’t matter. What you own doesn’t matter to them. Girls really don’t care about any of that material stuff. But you need to master your self so that you can have a much better time talking to girls. The reality is, there are so many girls available that even if one doesn’t want your advances, there is plenty more where that one came from. Always have that attitude. Read the rest of this entry »

There are a lot of body language and non verbal techniques that you can use to enhance your ability to attract women.

However, just reading about them and knowing what they are isn’t going to be of much help when you meet a woman that you are really attracted to.

Unless you have had a lot of practice before on other women and your inner game mind frame closely resembles that of the body language you are using to attract women.

Even then, many of the techniques that you would like to use you won’t work simply because, in the moment your body isn’t going to have time to lie.

Of course, this is a huge reason why getting your inner game in order first is more important than learning non verbal techniques.

When it really matters in the moment your inner game and body aren’t going to lie and women especially quality women are much more likely to pick up on those little differences.

Now it is important that you understand if you work on your body language and non verbal techniques long enough you more than likely can fool a large majority of the women out there.

However, given the amount of energy and time it would take to master these skills you will be much better off improving your inner game and naturally displaying the type of non-verbal language that attracts women because that is who you are.

In the end, using you body to attract women is going to be the most affecting when you have the inner game to match the body language. Read the rest of this entry »

>A common complaint I hear from men when it comes to online dating and women is;

The amount of unattractive or damaged women that want too much in a man!

They tell me how a single mother of three shouldn’t be so picky or how she should lose some weight before making demands like that.

My first thought on the situation is who cares what a woman says she wants if you aren’t attracted to her.

Yet, what I find myself asking men who say this is what causes you to even be willing to settle for a woman like this if she wasn’t asking for what she is asking for.

Most online dating sites have a search function that allows you to eliminate women with children, heavyset women, and any number of things that you do not want.

It is also important to remember that just because she says it in her profile doesn’t mean that is the reality that she lives in.

When you are doing a search online it is important that you already know what you are willing to accept and not accept in a woman.

The only two that she can usually reveal online are her weight and her children; everything else is her just talking.

If she fits into what you are willing to accept find the connection that you two have and send her an email letting her know just that.

However, if you discover that she does not fit into what you are willing to accept move on to the next profile and forget about her, because she need not exist in your mind.

In the end, all a woman’s profile can reveal is who she would like to meet, if you already know that you would not like to meet her then who cares who she wants to meet.

More importantly, remember that if you would like o meet her it is then up to you to create a reason for her to want to meet you. Read the rest of this entry »