Junk and Sugar

I hope I don’t need to stress how important it is to be well groomed, neat and looking your
best when meeting girls. They spend hours in front of the mirror to look good; we can at
least be hygienic. Shave every day, wash your hair, use deodorant etc… Cut the nails on your hands and feet, and clean the dirt from under your nails. Use foot-antiperspirants if your feet smell bad. Clean your shoes often, and always iron your clothes. Mind the color of your socks, and don’t mix them. Put on a clean shirt and underwear every day.

Such small details are very important to women. When making your first impression, they will judge you based on this. Even if you don’t consider yourself good-looking, there are certain steps you can take to LOOK YOUR BEST. You don’t have to look as if you just stepped out of some fashion magazine, but a Man knows how to dress and how to look fine. Just by doing that, he leaves a good impression on people. If you look like a nerd, you’re making your own life harder. So take my advice:

1. Go to a hairstylist. I suggest visiting the best salon in your city. Don’t spare money on your looks. Ask the stylist what hairstyle he/she thinks would be the best for your face and character. Just by getting a stylish and cool haircut, you can change your image a lot. If long hair goes well with your face, wear it that way (but keep it clean!). If shorter or totally bald is better, go for that look. Don’t be afraid to ask your hairstylist; he’s there to help. If you don’t want to spend that much money, go to the best salon once, show your new haircut to your favorite hairstylist and have him/her cut it that way afterwards.

2. Glasses. They usually don’t look good. Drop them, and wear contact lenses instead. There are very few people who look good in glasses. If you have to wear them, try to find a pair that suits the shape of your face. Sunglasses can make you look cool in the summer. Just choose them wisely. You can ask a clerk at the shop to help you find a good pair.

3. Shaving. Shave your face, or trim your beard. If you have too much hair on your body, trim it to make yourself look smoother. It doesn’t matter whether you keep your pubic hair or shave it off, but if you keep it, make sure that it’s well trimmed and looks neat. If you wear sleeveless T-shirts, shave your armpits.

4. Dressing. This is one of the most important things about your looks. Go to the trendiest club in your city and take a look at how guys dress. If you think it might suit your image, look at what models wear. Go to the nearest shopping center with one of your friend girls (or, you have to go alone, ask the shop clerk), and buy some stylish new clothes. Read fashion magazines or men’s magazines. Always dress fashionably. Find a style that suits your personality which is trendy at the same time. Read the rest of this entry »

>Appearance: One of the first lessons with appearance is to make sure you look your best at all times, you never know when and where you will meet a beautiful woman. Women are mainly attracted to a neat look, they like a man to be well groomed and presentable. Your clothes will have to match and will have to be clean. Make sure your include everything with your appearance, women will notice every little detail such as if you nails are clean, if your hair is washed and if your clothes are clean. Smelling appropriately is also very important make sure you smell great.

Colognes: How you smell is very important to a woman, and it is another method to get a different sense of hers tingling. It is not only important to buy the right cologne you need to apply it correctly. You should not apply cologne to your face (that is for aftershave) or on your clothes cologne is made for the skin, the key areas to apply the scent is on the chest, the back of your neck, behind your ears and on your wrists. Also it is crucial that you do not spray too much on you do not want the smell to be overbearing, just enough to get her attention. When applying behind the ears just put a little in your palms and dab behind your ear. Another important point is to change round your cologne especially when you get to know a girl better, this way she keeps guessing what your going to smell like and gets her really interested.

Colognes that women like:

Davidoff - cool water

Giorgio Armani - Acqua Di Gio

Channel Allure – Homme Sport (recommended cologne)

Ralph Lauren – Polo sport

Lacoste – Style in play

Belts: Belts are very important fashion accessories and you need to make sure you get it right. It’d easy to remember hat goes with what, black shoes = black belt, brown shoes = brown belt. If you wearing a watch there is another part you must match, a silver watch goes with a silver buckle and a gold watch goes with a gold buckle. Read the rest of this entry »

Anyone who’s not used to approaching strangers will have a fear of it. That’s normal.
Some people will find it easy; some will find it really hard to overcome this. It’s like you’re an actor going on stage for the first time in front of a large audience. You will feel your heart pumping, butterflies in your stomach and a lump in your throat … Even the most seasoned actors will feel anxiety before going on stage, but the difference is that they LEARN TO CONTROL IT.

So that’s what you will have to do as well. Learn to control your fear and anxiety of approaching women you don’t know. Women strangers - man, how scary does that sound? You never did that, right? You will, my friend, you will! There are two schools of thought on dealing with the fear of approaching strangers. The first advocates therapy, as ridiculous as that may sound. In my opinion, doing a few exercises in your imagination might help somewhat, but won’t bring noticeable results.
What I subscribe to is shock therapy. That’s how I got rid of my fear back when.

If you want to quit smoking, you won’t do it with a bunch of nicotine patches. You’ll have to make the decision to stop for good. From that point on, there is no more smoking. It’s the same with girls. You’re standing in a club surrounded by girls. Your heart is pounding. What should you do? You will decide to end your misery FOR ONCE and approach a girl RIGHT NOW … just one of them. Of course, your first approach won’t be perfect. But as the saying goes, practice makes perfect. And that’s why I recommend mass approaches for your first time. Read the rest of this entry »

I’m sure you’ve had a date with a girl that didn’t go the way you expected. It happens to
everyone. Just realize that it’s not a matter of some invisible cloud following you around. How women respond to you depends on your personality and Manliness. There are common errors men tend to make when going out with a woman. Small details count a lot in the big picture. A little bit of inconsistency within your Manly frame, and you lose her. This is what I’ll be talking about in this article.

The biggest mistake you can make is to treat a woman as if she is different by putting her on a pedestal or looking down on her and treating her bad. Most guys, on seeing an attractive woman, are like, “OMG, she is soooo hot and beautiful. I don’t really deserve such girl …” Why? Why don’t you deserve her? Because she is hot? Is she above you in any way? No. Is she more than you? No. She is a human being, just like you and me. Women expect you to be a bit above them. They like it when they can look up to a man and not only because you are taller. Have qualities that she can admire in you, the most important of which are your personality and ability to lead her in the right direction.

Flowers and presents - They are wonderful tools for keeping a relationship and showing a woman how important she is to you - but not for seducing her. It’s a common misconception that you will lay her by buying her flowers or gifts. A Man would reward her with that. But why should she be rewarded when you don’t even know her? When you go out with a girl, she is usually a complete stranger to you. Do you buy flowers for strangers? No. Do you send gifts to strangers? No. It’s OK to do so when you’re in love with her, and she’s in love with you. But please, forget those tools for the first few weeks at least. Most guys who try to date her will bring flowers or chocolate bonbons. She just laughs at such lame attempts. Separate yourself from the crowd. Be different. A Man doesn’t need to stand in
line. He knows what he wants, and he knows how to get it.

Complimenting - It’s easy to go the wrong way with compliments. A compliment here and there is fine, but avoid overdoing them. They get boring quickly. How you compliment her matters a lot: “Oh, you look soooo beautiful!” - This is lame. You are putting her on a pedestal. You praise her looks - she has heard this a thousand times already. Her looks are genetics. She can’t influence that. Another bad one: “Nice ass!” - Macho-style compliment. This is again a stupid way to do it. Compliment your buddy’s girl to your buddy like that, but not the girl you’re seeing. If she’s hot, she likes to be complimented because of her personality, style or general outlook. No one does that. She’ll be flattered by your noticing it.

Tell her she has a beautiful smile and that you like it when she smiles. Tell her she has nice earrings and that you like her taste. Tell her that you like her perfume and that it’s one of your favorites. Read the rest of this entry »

Apart from clubs, there are many other places to meet girls. These include shopping malls, university campuses, the street and other venues I have already mentioned. The difference is that at most of these places, women don’t expect to be approached, and they are in a different mood. Usually, just by going up to them, you will create a large amount of attraction. But always be careful not to come off as threatening. Yelling “Stop!” at a girl on the street with a serious expression on your face might not be the best way to approach her. I wouldn’t recommend touching her either: Imagine being a woman, and some stranger on the street suddenly puts his hands on your shoulders.

Just choose the girl you want to approach: on the street, in a shopping mall or anywhere else. Try to make eye contact with her. Whether she looks back at you or not, smile, then go straight up to her. Don’t approach her from behind or from the side. Your goal is not to scare her to death, but to talk to her. When you’re in front of her, raise your hand gently and say, “Stop,” while still smiling and looking in her eyes. If she is located elsewhere, like sitting on a bench, sit next to her. Your state should be the same as when approaching a girl in a club. Be happy about meeting her and show it. You can use one of the “I like you” lines: “Hi! I like you. You have a beautiful smile.”

After she recovers from her surprise and you talk a bit, you can offer to take her to a nearby café if she’s not in a hurry. Shopping malls are ideal for this, because there are usually several restaurants and cafés inside. If she has to leave, just say: “I see you’re in a hurry, but I want to meet you later and get to know you better. Let’s exchange numbers, and we can meet in a café to talk later.” Then take her number.

If both of you have some spare time, it’s not a bad idea to stay together and switch venues. For example, if you meet at the shopping mall, sit and talk in a café for an hour or two; then you can take her for a walk at the nearby park and kiss her. The more time you spend with her and the more places you visit together, the closer she will feel to you, as if she’s known you for some time. Try it. And, by the way, you can do the same thing when picking her up in a club: Just extract her from the club; then visit a restaurant or another place as if you were already a couple.

Another way to meet girls is in your own social circle, that is, your friends and the people they introduce you to. Visiting a house party organized by your buddies, or going out together is the easiest way to pick up a girl in your circle of friends. Just make sure when you are new in a group that you don’t fight for attention or try to be the center by being loud. Lay back and watch the dynamics going on in the conversation. There is no need to use any specific opener; just approach the girl you want when the time is right, and talk to her. Read the rest of this entry »

I bet that the reason for you to read this is because most probably you have met girls who play hard to get before. This is not unusual, as playing hard to get is a common tactic used by girls on guys.

Many girls still feel that by taking the initiative will make them feel very loose and cheap. This will result in them waiting for guys to take action, and in some worse cases, even after the guy has taken action, a girl will still play hard to get with him so as to not make him think that she is easy to get.

Guys are very straightforward creatures. They do not like to play games when it comes to relationships. Sometime by playing hard to get, things may get backfired. A guy will think that he has no chance and therefore will leave and look for other girls.

So the ability to differentiate between a girl who is just playing hard to get and a girl who does not have any interest at all for you is very important here. Let us discuss some possible scenarios whereby a girl is most probably playing hard to get with you.

1. After a first date out with a girl, you do not receive any text or contact from her. No text, no phone call, etc. This will make you very confused as the both of you have hell lots of fun that night. In this scenario, the girl is most probably playing hard to get with you. Girl will usually NOT make the first move of contacting the guy after a date. So if you really want to bring a step further between you and her, do take the initiative to call her. If after many dates and you are still getting no calls whatsoever from her, you should move on.

2. The second scenario will be inside a pub, and let say that you have spotted a very attractive girl. Both of you exchange some eye contact, but after a while when you look over to her direction, she looks away and does not give you any attention at all. If you find that she still does give you a few glances when you are not looking at her, you should pick up your courage and approach her. Read the rest of this entry »

This is a term you will usually hear about in dating world but it applies to all areas of life. Alpha males are extremely attractive to women. In society the alpha male is the person that the others follow. The Alpha male understands better than other men about what women want. Alpha male knows the art of commanding a woman’s attention. Becoming an alpha male is one of the secrets to succeeding with women. You should want to learn how to become an alpha male…

What Women Want

Being an alpha male is mandatory if your aim is to attract the most amount of beautiful women possible, then you choose which women you want to date. To become an alpha male means learning the art of seduction, using the correct body language, knowing the best pick-up lines and always acting confident and relaxed around women. Women keep falling for and chasing after alpha males. First and Foremost, you must believe in yourself. Your success with women comes from having a solid frame of mind and self-confidence. Women want to be seduced by men; they would rather have a little piece of an Alpha Male than the whole part of a homely guy.

How to Be a Alpha Male – 5 Rules to Follow

Rule #1 - You need to lose your old beta male characteristics.

Rule #2 -You aren’t concerned with others opinions of you or what you do.

Rule #3 - You control every situation.

Rule #4 – You need to be an energetic guy, but not overly excited.

Rule #5 - Control your voice and tone.

How to become an alpha male is a very common question by someone who is trying to attract a beautiful woman. The more you believe you are the alpha male, the more you become the alpha male. You must let yourself become a successful alpha male. It will take a little practice before you become comfortable doing this, but as you do so you’ll pick up speed and it will become second nature. If you do this, women become extremely submissive towards the alpha male, but conversely they are extremely rude and quite insulting to beta males because to them these males don’t deserve their respect or their submissiveness.

How to Be a Alpha Male - Body Language

The most important thing to remember is that you will learn how to display the alpha male body language everywhere you go and in all situations. When you become an alpha male, you display confidence in all situations and do so by developing strong body language. What body language do alpha males use to get any woman they want? They have great posture; they are relaxed and confident portraying an image as to show his territory. They act as if they “own” them area that they are currently occupying. Certain body language traits can make you appear to have inferior status, a definite turn-off to women. This is another beta trait. Believe me what I say that she will love you more if you show pride and confidence in both your body language and with what you say. Read the rest of this entry »

Ask almost any Body Language expert what leaning back communicates to a woman that you are talking to and almost all tell you it communicates a certain amount of disinterest and lack of concern in the conversation involved.

They also will tell you that when trying to make a good first impression you should avoid leaning back for those exact same reasons.

However, when it comes to attracting women, leaning back is perhaps one of the most powerful things you can do.

If a woman likes you and is interested in what you have to say, your leaning back will cause her to lean in more to hear what you have to say.

If a woman is neutral in regards to her interest in you she still must act as if she likes you and lean in to determine if she might like you.

As for women who don’t like you, it will be easier to know which ones they are when they aren’t leaning in and are more than likely leaning back as well.

In other words, when you lean back most women, whether they realize it or not, will reveal the amount of interest they really have in you.

The more they lean in as you lean back the greater amount of interest they have in you which you can then decide to turn into attraction or not.

If she too is leaning back you can lean in to see if she follows; if she does then her interest is great, if she doesn’t then odds are she isn’t interested in you. Read the rest of this entry »

I am no dating expert or guru, I am just an average every day guy living a regular existence who has been able to transform his dating life and have a lot of success meeting women. Over the past couple of years I have seen Myspace transform my own and many other people’s social lives. Now Facebook has produced an exceptionally great opportunity for any average guy to meet amazing women that they would have never had the chance to meet previously.

First I am going to tell you why Facebook presents this exceptional opportunity for you and then I am going to tell you the how. It is important you do not skip this section because in this case understanding the why maybe be just as if not more important than the how. Given that over 60% of Facebook users are women let me try and determine why this is the case and why it is critical for your to understand.

Why do women love social networking sites? Back in the old days when we used to live in tribes of around 100 people men used to be depended on for the survival of their family. Women and their children depended on their man to provide for and protect for them, without a man a woman and her family would usually die. There were no social services in those days. Men developed a strongly independence as they had to depend on themselves for their own survival and the survival of their offspring.

Men who were abundance in the wealth they could provide for their family were seen as attractive as there men who can great strength and fitness who could protect their family. Men who had leadership and dominance were seen as attractive as they had the power to lead others and provide and protect their families thus men who also possessed these skills also found it easy to attract a female partner.

Women on the other hand had another set of qualities which they developed in order to increase the likelihood of their survival and that of their family. This can be best described as having great communication skills. Women depended on keeping a great relationship with their man for their own survival as losing them would mean certain death. They also had to master the art of communication with their children and families. Over thousands of years this characteristics have been hard wired into our brains so that men and women will excel at certain skills. Read the rest of this entry »

Even though you can meet women just about anywhere and in several different ways, when it comes right down to it you will either use a cold approach or a warm approach when meeting a woman.

If you are wondering what a cold approach or a warm approach is exactly don’t worry I will explain what they are right now.

Cold Approach- When you introduce yourself to a woman you don’t know at the bar, club, or even on the street these would be known as cold approaches.

You don’t know her and she does not know you, in addition you don’t know if you have any mutual history together, i.e. someone she knows that knows you.

Warm Approach- When you have a mutual friend introduce you to a woman or you introduce yourself at an even where everybody is connected to everybody in some way, i.e. a wedding or small party, these would be known as warm approaches.

You both know someone who knows both of you therefore she can assume you are a good guy.

Obviously warm approaches are much easer to work with than cold approaches yet the opportunities to meet women with cold approaches are a lot more to work with. Read the rest of this entry »