Junk and Sugar

Should I use dating advice coach? Are you single? Having relationship challenges? While the idea of having a dating advice coach might seem a bit strange you might ask why. We have life coaches and personal trainers, why not look to a trained expert to get your love life in shape as well? Tiger Woods had a coach, Michael Jordan had several coaches, and business people have consultants and mentors.

When it comes right down to it both Men and women really want the same things. Both want to be loved, respected, and admired. While that might be true enough, the difference lies the approach, and thinking process in getting to the final destination. Women tend to emotionalize more, think, and every aspect gets a thorough analysis. Their counterparts on the other hand, tend to see it as a more straight forward process. If a specific number of steps occur then logically the goal is reached. Perhaps that’s why the so called pick-up artists have gained some popularity of late. It’s the perceived need of techniques and the like some men use as a crutch to get past their initial fears of approaching and interacting.

While women often have the support and feedback of friends fewer men will likely survey their peer group for suggestions. So what’s the solution, first gaining a better understanding of how the other side thinks, processes ideas, and is likely to react. Not as easy as it sounds? Perhaps a dating coach for some advice would fit your needs. Read the rest of this entry »

What people wear to a date is important when it comes to creating a first lasting impression. What is chosen for dates should be picked carefully. Many singles admit that what their partners wear for the date has a major effect on how attractive they find them. Many single women said that if a man showed up with booties for lunch they would feel discouraged to meet him for a second date. The same thing applies to a man who appears with leather pants. My first date fashion advice to men would be that they should avoid bathing in their cologne and should not walk in clothes which do not flatter their body physique. The dating attire should flatter their looks in all aspects.

Fashion choice for a woman’s first date also influences the possibility of there being a second date. Men admitted that they would decline a second date with a lady who dressed so flamboyantly on the first date. My fashion tips to ladies would be: do not over do the make-up. Surprisingly, too much make-up is a big turn off to many gentlemen. Have you ever come across men who wear make-up? Yes they are there and the highest percentage of women admitted that they were a real turn off. They do not portray the traits of a “man enough” figure. Dating attire is very important because it gives a picture of who you might not be. Choose it carefully. Read the rest of this entry »