Junk and Sugar

If you want to get attractive women to go out with you, you must do things that the average male cannot do or will not do. Yes, you must step outside your comfort zone, and go for it.

Here’s what attractive women like, confident men. A normal man might walk up to a beautiful woman and buy her a drink. A high value male might go up to that same woman, and ask her to buy him the drink. Then he might even say, but hey, don’t get any funny ideas. Don’t think just because you get me drunk, I’m going to put out for you.

A wussy wouldn’t have the guts to say something like that, but a confident man would.

It’s important to understand the difference between confidence and cockiness. You can say the exact line above, and it can be construed either way. If you say it with a sly smile and in a manner that conveys you’re joking, then it’s funny and it also demonstrates confidence You’re not afraid if she doesn’t appreciate it. Read the rest of this entry »

The art of seduction is all about triggering the right feelings and emotions from the very first time you meet. When seeking a new relationship my advice is to pay attention to your appearance and learn to emanate the right body language which will quickly draw her attention and then it’s all down to charm and personality.

Attracting and seducing women isn’t about getting lucky, it’s not about being tall, dark and handsome and it’s about being not good enough or never meeting the right person, the art of seduction is all about self-confidence, showing an inner strength and revealing your magnetic character.

First impressions count and don’t most of us know it, how many times have you been dumped after the first or second date? Do you fear that next rejection? Have you started approaching a new relationship with the knowledge that you lack the ability to attract any women and that no matter how hard you try the relationship won’t last? If so the chances are you will be giving off those negative vibes, all chances of seducing women will have blown out the window and you’ll need relationship advice to give you a real self confidence boost to get you back on the right track.

I know you want to be successful with women, very few men don’t, so don’t just sit around on your own thinking that you haven’t got what it takes, that you will never be able to attract and seduce the right women, get off your ass, put some time and effort into mastering the art of seduction, learn how to attract women, gain the self confidence to tackle a new relationship and start living your life in the way you know you want to live it. Read the rest of this entry »

Every human being likes to feel good about themselves, and nothing can impress a woman more than a guy who can make them feel special and treat them like an ultimate queen. Each guy has his own special way to make his woman feel special but there are certain techniques which work on almost all women all the time. Read on to discover how you can make a woman feel special and give her the best treatment.

Let her know what she means- Tell her what she means to you and what difference she makes to your life. Let her know that you simply can’t not imagine living the way you are without her. Make her feel wanted and special.

Treat her like a friend- Share everything with her and talk to her like a friend and discuss about your issues and dreams, where you need to get in life and where you want to take the relationship.

Be protective of her- Nothing can make a woman feel more special than a guy who would stick by her every step of the way and protect you. Women are mostly attracted towards guys who can make them feel comfortable and feel protected.

Respect her opinions- Once in a blue moon learn to listen to have and take her opinions as well. Make her feel that she is heard as well when it comes to decision making in the house. Read the rest of this entry »

What happens when you write a great dating profile online? You’ve communicated that you have direction in life, that you are excited about life, that you are in service to people around you, that you steer your own ship. You have subtly communicated that your senses are alive and that you are vulnerable and open within a masculine context of strength.

You’ve done your homework on how to write a great profile and now the women are writing to you!

So NOW what do you do???

If you are like most guys, you gush! You write back to them right away! You show your cards – you are amazed at how easy this is! How great you are! What a great date you can have together!

And she will not write you back.

Here’s how to fix that.

Don’t respond. That’s right. Wait it out. Instead, sit with her profile. Without judgment, without desire. Be a Zen Master for a few hours. Feel who she is. Sit with her words. One or a few of them will jump out as concentrated points of emotional passion:

Ask yourself these questions:

o What is she trying to project?
o Who is the hopeful, pained person she behind what she says?
o What’s semi-hidden about her?
o Where do her deepest passions lie?
o What really matters to her?
o Who really matters most to her?

How can you stand out from every other guy by crafting a brief note back that shows that you get her? Read the rest of this entry »

Guys are known to be very good in flirting. They can say a million things when they mean none. Unfortunately, they get a lot of unwanted attention from girls. Some guys are so used to flirting that it has become a part of them. They can hardly hold a casual talk with a woman for two minutes without flirting. This is one of the flirting tips for guys. Please do not provoke emotions in girls if you do not intend to reciprocate. Some girls especially who are not so exposed to opposite sex get excited out of a mere flirt. They interpret the sweet melodious words to the ear as a sign of interest. What happens when the guy shows no further signs of pursuit? The girl is left high and dry. Isn’t this heartbreaking? Off course it is.

That is why many girls accuse guys of playing with their psychology. A girl who was your friend might result into hating you with a passion after continuous flirting leading to nowhere. To maintain your boundaries communicate your intentions and keep the flirting light and sweet. Maintain your friendships with opposite sex since such friendships are very beneficial. Another flirting tip for guys is that do not go beyond the set boundaries lest you will be trapped in an emotional quagmire. If you flirt deeply with one girl, she will naturally develop love feelings for you. You might not be too strong to dismiss sexual advances from women. It is known to all that men are the weaker sex and will find it hard to resist a readily available opportunity to enjoy sex.

The aftermath of influenced sexual encounters are feelings of regret and personal hate. Among the best flirting tips for guys is that do not compromise your dignity by flirting with everybody including the people who will taint your image. Read the rest of this entry »