Junk and Sugar

Guys, do you want to learn how to meet girls? Are you tired of not having any success with the women? Had enough with sitting at home on a Friday night without a woman to take out on a date? Ever thought that if only you knew the right method, that your life as a dateless chump would be way better than it is? It is time you became the Alpha Male that you have always dreamt about. The kind of guy that can stride into a bar and make chicks ask “is he available?”

I want to show you the greatest secret that will change the way you pick up girls. The secret itself is so simple but you have to master it. The secret is a skill to work on for the rest of your life, and if you master it, it will change every area of your life. Ready to be a better man?

I’ve been where you are before and I wont let you do it anymore. I won’t let you sit at home on a Friday night, dateless, hoping that a woman would call and ask you for a date. You need to drop all the stuff you’ve been wasting time on and take a step forward to become a better man. You need to become the Alpha Male, the man that women want to be with. You can have the women hanging all over you. Drop the video game controller and make a better life for yourself.

Let me tell you the one secret. Girls want a very strong guy. They need a man who likes himself. It really doesn’t matter if you are overweight, losing your hair…none of that matters to a girl. How rich you are doesn’t matter. What you own doesn’t matter to them. Girls really don’t care about any of that material stuff. But you need to master your self so that you can have a much better time talking to girls. The reality is, there are so many girls available that even if one doesn’t want your advances, there is plenty more where that one came from. Always have that attitude. Read the rest of this entry »

Chas and Dave wrote a song about it and how right they were. Women just love to rabbit! Whether you calling it chatting, nattering, gassing or just plain talking, we’re way ahead of the opposition in the vocal stakes. Not that I’m saying it’s a reason for our men to dump us, as suggested by Chas and Dave, but I’ve no doubt there are times when they wish we’d put a sock in it.

More often than not, talking to another woman is far less work than trying to get a decent conversation going with a bloke. How many times haven’t you tried initiating conversation by mentioning something you’re sure he’d find agreeable only to receive the standard “mmmm” reply. If you know he loves BMWs and there’s a fine example of one parked along the road, try saying “that’s a nice car, isn’t it?” and see what happens. Yepp, the standard reply. If you really want to get him talking, try “I can’t see what anybody sees in those cars” and before you know it, he’ll be chatting on about how reliable the engine of a BMW is (assuming it is, of course), how comfortable the interior is, not to mention how well planned the layout is and the luggage room’s just awesome! And did you know it can do 0-60 at the speed of a fart? The point is, men need to be dragged into action through a good disagreement. Small talk, just for the sake of it, isn’t their forte.

It’s hardly surprising, given our differences, that men become frustrated at their women who constantly want to talk about things that offer no argument. They don’t see the point in discussing the scent of the roses unless you happen to think it smells like sherbet whilst he thinks it smells of honey! And if you’ve already decided to get a Greyhound, why continue to talk about them? The subject would really only merit further discussion if you’ve started doubting the decision but to him, simply reiterating that Greyhounds make wonderful pets is hardly worthy of word expenditure.

Women, on the other hand, are happy to spend hours discussing various aspects of life, be it which washing powder does the job best (although I have to admit that this particular subject has a short life around here) to whether or not there’s life in outer space. We’ll analyse our lives from every perceivable angle and serve our emotions on a plate to be shared and devoured. When we talk about sex it’s because we’re either experiencing difficulties in that department or finally achieved multiple orgasm. The fact that the bloke standing next to the BMW (the one you earlier admired with your partner) has a huge lunch box isn’t THAT important to us. Sure, we’ll joke about it but where men stop at “I’d give her one”, women will discuss ‘why’ they’d give him one. Read the rest of this entry »

There are a lot of body language and non verbal techniques that you can use to enhance your ability to attract women.

However, just reading about them and knowing what they are isn’t going to be of much help when you meet a woman that you are really attracted to.

Unless you have had a lot of practice before on other women and your inner game mind frame closely resembles that of the body language you are using to attract women.

Even then, many of the techniques that you would like to use you won’t work simply because, in the moment your body isn’t going to have time to lie.

Of course, this is a huge reason why getting your inner game in order first is more important than learning non verbal techniques.

When it really matters in the moment your inner game and body aren’t going to lie and women especially quality women are much more likely to pick up on those little differences.

Now it is important that you understand if you work on your body language and non verbal techniques long enough you more than likely can fool a large majority of the women out there.

However, given the amount of energy and time it would take to master these skills you will be much better off improving your inner game and naturally displaying the type of non-verbal language that attracts women because that is who you are.

In the end, using you body to attract women is going to be the most affecting when you have the inner game to match the body language. Read the rest of this entry »

American Singles is an online dating site that as a man is free to join but is going to cost you some money if you actually want to have any success at meeting women with it.

However, like any good dating site online American Singles lets you browse through the personals for free.

Only when you decide that you want to actually write an email and communicate with a woman does it become necessary for you to come up with the cash and subscribe.

In regards to the features that they have to offer once you break down and pay it comes with many useful functions including the ever popular instant messaging.

With that said, it also comes with the one feature that men, no matter what the circumstances may be, must avoid using which is the “too lazy to write and/too cheap to pay” button.

In this case, it happens to be called an E-card and unlike other “too lazy to write/pay” buttons it actually gives you a large variety to choose from.

As tempting as they might be, your initial contact with a woman must never be an E-card.

Overall, given the relatively inexpensive monthly subscription options that they have, if you know what works when it comes to having success with women online American Singles will give you the opportunity to do just that given the large amount of women that they have online.

Now, if you don’t know what works when it comes to success with women online, write to me an I’ll help you discover your true potential with women online and off.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now.

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Many really beautiful women do not post their pictures online; in fact many of them don’t even keep their profiles visible online.

Why would a beautiful woman choose not to show the entire online community her picture?

Hopefully you already know the answer to this and if not let me be the first to tell you.

Women with nice pictures in their profiles get emails from every desperate and lonely guy subscribed to the site.

Women with just a profile online do not get as many emails from the desperate and lonely type yet at the same time will at least only attract men who actually found something interesting in her profile.

More importantly however, these are the same women who actively search for men whose profiles stand out from all the rest.

In other words, the better your profile is, the greater your chances of actually attracting these types of women.

In addition, if you consider yourself a risk taker or simply have a lot of time to spend online, you might want to consider checking out women profiles with no pictures in them or at least no primary photo to display.

Not only does it require you to actually read her profile but it is much easier to get a response back from her as well.

When you really think about it women without pictures in their profile carry the same amount of risk that women with pictures in their profiles do when it comes to actually meeting her in a person.

Especially when you consider the amount of women who use deceptive photos in the first place, either way when you meet in person it truly will be the first time that you have actually seen her

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men who has a daily newsletter that provides you with a wealth of information on how to be more successful with women. You can sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men now. Read the rest of this entry »

A great tool that most good online dating sites have that men can use to attract women right now is; the “Online Now” search option.

Women who are online right now tend to respond to email that they receive while they are on the dating site.

Of course, all the rules of online dating for men pretty much stay the same.

The only thing that changes is usually your response rate time.

The first thing you are going to want to do is come up with an interesting enough email to make her want to respond.

Your first email is the most important because if she doesn’t respond to it the game is over.

Once she has responded to your email this is your chance to be bold and suggest the two of you meet for coffee right now or you can hold off and suggest another time and date and at the same time ask for her phone number.

Her next response must be moving towards a meeting, if it in anyway is only moving towards another email the game is over.

However, if she has given you her phone number only call when you have a specific thin in mind for you two.

Even though, you have eliminated the serial online daters the serial phone daters still exist as well as the “stand him uppers”.

To limit these types of women from having an effect on you it is important that you call her knowing what it is you want to do (where to meet) and that the time is one at which you aren’t missing out on anything important or would want to do.

In the end, the “Online Now” search option is an effective tool for men o use o meet women online, if used correctly. Read the rest of this entry »

>A common complaint I hear from men when it comes to online dating and women is;

The amount of unattractive or damaged women that want too much in a man!

They tell me how a single mother of three shouldn’t be so picky or how she should lose some weight before making demands like that.

My first thought on the situation is who cares what a woman says she wants if you aren’t attracted to her.

Yet, what I find myself asking men who say this is what causes you to even be willing to settle for a woman like this if she wasn’t asking for what she is asking for.

Most online dating sites have a search function that allows you to eliminate women with children, heavyset women, and any number of things that you do not want.

It is also important to remember that just because she says it in her profile doesn’t mean that is the reality that she lives in.

When you are doing a search online it is important that you already know what you are willing to accept and not accept in a woman.

The only two that she can usually reveal online are her weight and her children; everything else is her just talking.

If she fits into what you are willing to accept find the connection that you two have and send her an email letting her know just that.

However, if you discover that she does not fit into what you are willing to accept move on to the next profile and forget about her, because she need not exist in your mind.

In the end, all a woman’s profile can reveal is who she would like to meet, if you already know that you would not like to meet her then who cares who she wants to meet.

More importantly, remember that if you would like o meet her it is then up to you to create a reason for her to want to meet you. Read the rest of this entry »

Hopefully you already know that women as a whole do not call men first.

So what is a man to do when a woman that he has emailed from an online dating site writes “If you want to talk sometime give me your phone number”?
After all in many ways this might seem promising as she is the one initiating that the two of you take this online meeting offline.

Well, the answer is quite simple; you respond to her email with an invitation for her to give you her phone number.

Her asking for your phone number means nothing more than when a woman in the real world asks for your phone number.

The results are close to the same if not worst online, a majority of the women will not call you first and the ones that do will be looking to take advantage of you.

Yet, when you simply ask for her phone number instead of giving her your own something remarkable happens.

The only women who will not give you her phone number are the ones who have no intention of ever meeting you in person (or calling for that matter) and women who are looking to completely control you.

In other words, the types of women you want to avoid or can’t get in the first place.

Asking her for her phone number is the only thing a man can do in a situation like this if he wants a woman that is of quality and will make him happy.

What it always will come down to is a man must always lead a woman to where he wants to go even if it seems as if she is already headed there.

Otherwise, you run a greater chance of ending up somewhere that you don’t want to be all by yourself. Read the rest of this entry »

When you first visit the online dating site True the one thing that you’ll notice that sets them apart form all of the other “matchmaker” dating sites online is their concern for your safety.

They let you know that they run your name against a criminal database on all of their members and actively prosecute any person who “attempts” to commit adultery or any other criminal acts.

As a man, this really doesn’t help or hurt your chances at attracting a woman on True.com unless you have a felony or a serious misdemeanor.

However, as many of you already realize True does this to attract more women on their site since it is pretty much a given that men will come in droves to any site that has or has the potential of having women interested in men.

Of course, the type of women by a large majority that a dating site online will attract with their main marketing gimmicks are safety and background checks are women who are overly cautious or who have already been involved with a man with whom a background check would have been best before she got involved.

In other words, as a man you can expect to deal with more women wanting you to jump through unnecessary hips to meet and a greater chance of the women you do meet having a man in their recent past who you should be concerned with.

In the end, the matchmaking site True.com may or may not have more women online than your average dating site.

However, when signing up for a site like this, you need to make sure you have a system for success with women online already in place as well as being aware of any signs she may give you in regards to men in her past. Read the rest of this entry »

In response to a previous article I wrote entitled ‘The 5 Types of Losers on the Internet’, a few people asked me what I thought were some of the types of women to avoid online. So here, in my opinion, are the warning signs on a profile of a woman you should avoid. Keep these in mind when you’re out there surfing MySpace and trying your best hand at online dating.

5. The Bedroom Model

This woman posts what looks like a professional modeling picture on her profile, yet on further examination you quickly realize it’s a carefully Photoshopped picture of her in her bedroom. This woman claims she is a professional model, yet has no photos of herself anywhere outside of her profile. This woman is usually mildly attractive but gets herself overrated by about 3 points through seductive posing. Unless you want to be disappointed, don’t bother with these women. Sure, her profile picture looks like Jessica Simpson, but when you meet her in person she’s closer to Homer. Watch those Photoshop artists!

4. The Woman’s Picture is Only of One Feature of Her Body (I.E. her breasts, buttocks, or a tattoo)

This woman is generally fat and has no saving grace other than the little sliver of her body she’s determined to sell to the public. You’ll never see a full body picture of these types of women either, because she can’t fit her whole body in the lens unless the picture taken from an extreme angle. No, she’s not doing those fisheye lens effects because she likes them; she’s doing it because she’s a sumo wrestler.

3. Women Who Take Photos with a “Male Best Friend”

We’ve all seen this one. This woman is generally very attractive, and you would hit on her if you knew whether she was single or not. Well she is single, but her “best friend” has first dibs if he can ever convince her he’s not gay. Read the rest of this entry »